One Swimsuit does NOT Fit ALL!

Started the day with a smile ready to get healthy. Till I went with my son James to find myself a new swimsuit. 2 stores later and I felt so down about myself image. I tried on so many swimsuits with different results each time. It seams like the only choices they have for plus size beautiful women is the one size suits all.


Wrong! I do not want to wear a suit that looks like something with lots of old fashioned flowers,  colors so depressing with a skirt at the bottom. Why do designers only believe that plus size women need to dress down and hide our bodies! we should be able to embrace our curves! We can still look nice and cute at any size and yet this is the choice they offer...

This makes me look older than I am!!!

It seems like the designers create a style that is really cute on a thin tiny person and then enlarge it for plus size women, Sorry that does not work for our shapes we should have cute suite designed just for our body types!...

I walked out of the last store almost in tears feeling so down about myself. My son James possibly noticing how sad I looked said to me "Mom you are not fat!!" He kept saying it over and over again. 

I was ready to go home and skip swimming today in my old suite but James would not let me feel sorry for myself. He convinced me how important it was for us to go to the req center and I have to say I had an amazing fun time. He even swam laps with me and kept encouraging me to keep going. 

By the time we were ready to leave I had swam 40 laps crazy right! Im sure I will be tired tomorrow. 

The reason I kept looking for a new suit was because I have lost weight and my swimsuit is becoming larger on me.

James said "Mom why dont you just stitch up the suit to help it fit better" He is such an amazing young man I am so blessed and lucky to be his mom!

Every plus size women is BEAUTIFUL!!!